Good Kisser

Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.  - Albert Einstein

Pearl Necklace by Laurie Cooper

What makes a kiss memorable? Is it the moment, the chemistry, the man, time spent leading up to "the kiss" or is it the art and skill that goes into knowing how to kiss? For me, the latter trumps the former.  Much like carving the human form out of a piece of fine wood - it takes time, patience, respect for the art and the knowledge to master this rewarding skill. 

I appreciate kissing someone that knows how to kiss. Someone that understands the slow and sensual pace required to move from delicate and passionate pecks to full on tongue-in-mouth, which should come much later in the act. The time in between is THE most important aspect; it's the foreplay of kissing. 

Most fools rush in where artful kissers tread gently and those fools end up missing out on the magic that transpires. The magic being - soft biting and tugging of the bottom or top lip, the unspoken dialect while locking eyes, the strategic placement of the hands on the back of the neck or side of the face, the head/neck movement, the pauses and pulling back just as he or she comes in for another. This just in - there is such a thing as an orgasmic kiss and it is indeed attainable. One would have to be present in the moment, present in the act and susceptible to a higher level of intimacy- a level far more powerful than sex.

  

EJW